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Small Talk

Making small talk with strangers often fills us with dread, though we all know how important it is to get acquainted with our partners before we get round to doing business with each other. Small talk is meant to find something in common, to find a common ground for future co-operation.

Starting or closing a conversation is usually even more uncomfortable. Preparing with a few opening and closing lines or sentences can be real help for us, and you will see that it is not as big a challenge as you first expected.

However, if you know what is going on in the areas of culture, sports, and so on , you can have a fluent, successful conversation.. Beware, do NOT mention personal issues such as religion or politics.

Dialogue 1:

A: “Hi, Steve.”
B: “Oh, hi, Dave.”
A: “How are you doing?”
B: “I’m doing alright. How about you?”
A: “Not too bad. The weather is great isn’t it?”
B: “Yes. It’s beautiful today.”
A: “So where are you going now?”
B: “I’m going to a meeting that starts in a few minutes.”
A: “Well, you’d better get going. You don’t want to be late.”
B: “I’ll see you next time.”
A: “Sure. Bye.”

Dialogue 2:

A: “Hello. My name’s Peter. It’s a pleasure to meet you.”
B: “Hi Peter. I’m glad to be here.”
A: “Did you have any problems finding this place?”
B: “No, I didn’t. I used my navigator so it was pretty easy to find. However, the traffic wasn’t that great.”
A: “Traffic is never good around here.”
B: “I totally agree. It’d be great if there was a train or a subway line that went through here.”
A: “That would be so great. I would definitely take the train if they had it.”
B: “Trains are great ‘cos you can get a little rest instead of having to fight the traffic.”
A: “Indeed. Well, let me begin by telling you about our company.”


Dialogue 3:

A: “Hi Sue, how are you doing?”
B: “Great. How are you doing?”
A: “I’m doing well myself.”
A: “What have you been up to lately?”
B: “Well, we’ve just started to work on the new project and it’s really driving me nuts.”
A: “Does that mean you are overloaded?”
B: “Oh, no, not really. It’s OK.”
A: “We should get together for lunch sometime.”
B: “Yeah, that would be great.”
A: “I’ll call you sometime.”
B: “Ok. I’ll see you later.”
A: “Alright. See ya.”

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